When I was a single mom, married men with stay at home wives were always trying to tell me how to grow my business. People who had never had to cancel an entire day’s worth of patients, and lose an entire day’s worth of income. because their child woke up with a fever.
We can learn from the people we admire, but ultimately we all have to follow that list you suggest. Chasing someone else’s version of success never feels good.
BTW funny use of the pizza emoji!